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Gift Ideas For Women On Valentine’s Day

Tuesday, February 9th, 2010

valentineFor most men, picking out the perfect Valentine’s gift for their wives or girlfriends can be a tedious task. Since not all women are very particular about what they really want, men spend a lot of time finding that elusive gift and end up confused and frustrated when they can’t decide which one to choose for their special someone.

To avoid confusion, you must mentally review the interests of your wife or girlfriend and create her profile in your mind when you go out shopping for that gift.

If your wife or girlfriend is logical and humble, avoid giving her items that are extravagant and super expensive. Give your “practical” partner extremely practical gifts that may include a new coffeemaker, vacuum cleaner, magazine subscriptions, furniture items, towels or sheets, and a few gardening items. Make sure she definitely is a practical person before giving these gifts, otherwise you might get a reaction you don’t expect!!

If you have a romantic partner, give her sentimental stuff like journals with pen set, perfumes, tickets to the special ballet, art show, or theatre performance, a pampering bath and body set, reservations at a fancy fine-dining restaurant, a relaxing out-of-town or out-of-the-country weekend getaway, jewellery like necklaces and earrings, or a designer watch.

If your partner is into sports or fitness, give her what a “sporty” wife would be interested in. That may include tickets that feature her favourite basketball, hockey, baseball, or football team, team spirit items like collectible shirts, hats, and memorabilia, fitness stuff like hand weights, yoga mat, workout DVDs or a pre-paid gym membership.

Romantic gift options for women

Giving her a unique gift on Valentine’s Day would definitely rekindle that special bond. If you are still clueless what gifts you can give your wife or girlfriend, here are the top Valentine’s Day items that men usually give out to their partners on this special day.

- A selection of her favourite flowers. This is a surefire hit because women cannot resist the charm of flowers. Just make sure that the flowers are her favourite variety to create more impact.

- Jewellery and unique accessories with matching jewellery boxes. Women love jewellery so if you can afford it, she would be extremely delighted to have it as a Valentine’s Day gift from you.

- A special pencil sketch or a portrait of your wife or girlfriend. This is a unique gift to give her especially to those who are inclined with the arts.

- A personalised CD or audio cassette of her favourite singer or artist. Women take pride if their men know their tastes and preferences when it comes to music so this will be a hit.

But before you go out on that gift-buying spree for your Valentine, make sure that you stick to your price range. If possible, buy her the things she specifically asked for to avoid hassles. Also, take time to look for gifts that suit her style, taste, and personality and lastly, wear comfortable clothes and shoes so you would be comfortable even if you spend the whole day looking for that special gift.



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Choosing Your Something Old, New, Borrowed, and Blue

Wednesday, February 3rd, 2010

wedding garterWe have all grown up with the wedding poem, “Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue.” But did you know the next line is “And a silver sixpence in her shoe”?  A sixpence is a British silver coin minted from 1551 to 1967.

All these items – old, new, borrowed, blue and a sixpence are supposed to be tokens of good luck for a happy marriage.  And knowing that, don’t you want to follow this nice tradition and enhance your own wedded “luck”?

 

Old
Something old has to do with the bride’s family continuing on and on; from the past and present into the future. It can also mean you are leaving your old life and joining your husband in a new life together. 

  • A lace handkerchief from your grandmother that you can carry tucked in with your bouquet up the aisle. It will come in handy if you become joyfully teary.
  • An old piece of jewelry from your mother or grandmother.  For example, you could wear an old wedding band on your other hand, or wear her brooch.
  • Use your parent’s cake topper on your wedding cake.
  • Wear your mother’s wedding dress or veil.

New
Something new represents hope and an optimistic outlook for the bride’s new life with her husband.

  • Many of the items you are wearing are probably new – your wedding dress, your veil, your shoes.
  • Wear new silky undergarments.
  • Purchase jewellery just to go with your wedding dress.
  • Get a new charm bracelet with charms that represent all that you and your fiance have experienced together so far.  Then you can add to it over the years and you’ll always remember where it came from.

Borrowed
Something borrowed should be something loaned from a happily married person – family or friend. They are loaning you the item with good wishes for your own happy marriage. It also reminds you that you can depend on them in the future.

  • Ride to the wedding in your grandfather’s antique roadster.
  • Wear a garter that your best friend wore.
  • Borrow your mother’s pearl necklace.
  • Use the hairpins your sister used in her wedding hairdo.

Blue
Something blue has a variety of meanings, but the colour blue has been associated with weddings through the ages.  Blue represents the Virgin Mary and virginity, staying true to your loved one, constancy, and modesty.

  • Jewellery set with sapphires.
  • A blue garter.
  • Pale blue undergarments.
  • One blue flower in your wedding bouquet.
  • For fun, paint your toenails blue.

As far as the sixpence, it means a blessing for prosperity and future wealth.

  • Tuck a symbolic coin into your shoe.
  • Slip the coin into your purse.
  • Or put it in the shoes you will wear upon leaving the reception.

Some items may fit into a couple of different categories and that’s perfectly fine. They should still bring you luck.  Here’s an example that could cover the first four categories:  wear an old, borrowed, blue garter and tie a miniature picture frame to it with a new picture of you and your beloved.

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Disposable Wedding Cameras

Friday, January 29th, 2010



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Surrey Weddings Continues To Support Breast Cancer Research

Friday, January 29th, 2010

We at Surrey Weddings have decided to continue our efforts to raise money for breast cancer research. We started this in October 2009 in aid of Wear It Pink (October is Breast CancerAwareness Month), and it worked really well.

So, from now on, for every new advertiser who signs up to our site,  we will donate £5 of the initial fee to Cancer Research UK.

The site is mainly geared up for women to browse, as they tend to be the ones who do most of the wedding arrangements. Sorry,  guys, but it’s true!

Plus, we wanted to give something back to the community. We only charge £25 per year for our advertising slots anyway, so to give 20% to this worthwhile charity is a great feeling.

So, pass the word. If you’re thinking of signing up, do so now and help cancer research.

Thank you



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History Of Wedding Favours

Tuesday, January 26th, 2010

Wedding favours are popular at wedding receptions or parties almost everywhere. Their historical origin is unknown but there’s evidence that they have been popular around the world for a very long time.

There are many theories about what generated the tradition of giving wedding guests a favour for attending the service. Some say the tradition originated with the Romans in the 8th century. Another states that the Romans, during 400 B.C. started the practice of throwing rice and giving wedding favours to guests.

Almonds have been a traditional symbol of good luck and assurances for successful marriages for centuries. Originally, only the titled families followed this practice and their favours were often made of silver or gold. When the custom filtered down to the other social classes, by the end of the 19th century, almonds were distributed in golden paper boxes.

Supposedly, when the groom gave his friends walnuts, he was saying goodbye to his bachelor ways. Walnuts were thrown at the couple during the ceremony and eventually evolved into today’s practice of throwing rice at them.

There are reports from English royalty during the 15th century that they usually handed out symbolic almonds in small boxes of precious metal to guests. Across the Channel, during the Napoleonic era, friends exchanged boxes of almonds as a wish for good luck.

In Russia, the Czars celebrated the christening of their children by giving their relatives and friends specially designed boxes of gold filled with sweets.

Middle Eastern weddings today use Jordan almonds at most weddings to continue this ancient symbolic rite. Guests are given 5 Jordan almonds to represent traditional wedding wishes of fertility, health, wealth and a long life together full of happiness. The candy coating on the almond is said to represent both the bitter and the sweet side of marriage.

In Malaysia, the groom is likely to send wedding presents to his future bride. Children are the traditional bearers of the gifts, which usually include elaborately decorated trays of food, including origami made with currency that represent flowers and cranes. A Korean marriage custom of each guest receiving a beautifully decorated hard-boiled egg to represent fertility is a welcomed wedding favour.

Party Crackers were popular as wedding favours during the Victorian Era and are still used today as favours or for other festive occasions, particularly for the British Christmas season, but not exclusively. They are a popular treat for parties of any theme, especially at children’s parties.

Apparently they were invented by Tom Smith, a London pastry cook, in the 1840’s. On a trip to Paris he was fascinated by a French holiday practice of placing sweets and sugared almonds in a bit of twisted colored paper. He called his creation “Kiss Mottos” and did not have much success with them until he made the paper container pop or crack when it was pulled apart.

Today’s wedding receptions continue the practice of giving wedding favours to guests. Some are traditional, but it has often evolved into themed practices, like wine, hearts, flowers, etc. Seasonal themes are very popular at certain times of the year and are a perfect theme to use around Valentine’s day.

 

Personalised favours have a strong following and guests might receive a set of pens and pencils engraved with the date of the wedding or a shot glass engraved with the details. One thoughtful gift might be a small silver, engraved frame with a picture of the bride and groom.

The wedding favour tradition has definitely evolved into a successful industry that has provided a solution to the wedding favour quandary and the time-consuming task of choosing the right favour for your wedding.

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Wedding Dresses in Surrey

Monday, January 18th, 2010

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Your wedding dress is one of the most important aspects of your wedding day. Everyone is waiting to see what your dress will look like. As well as being the centrepiece to your wedding, it needs to be comfortable as you’ll be wearing it for many hours.

To get the wedding dress you really want, take a look at our wedding dress page for wedding dress designers and retailers.

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Wedding Expenses – Who Pays For What?

Sunday, January 17th, 2010

surrey brideOnce you decide to get married and have a date set, the next big task is creating a reasonable budget for the big day. One of the early decisions will have to be the type of wedding you want: formal, informal, etc. Traditionally the bride’s father paid for everything, but that task is now being shared by both sets of families or the bride and groom alone, if they have money of their own. The rigid, traditional lines have disappeared.

Family members and friends with specific skills might contribute to the wedding ceremony by making the bride’s wedding dress or baking and decorating the wedding cake. Another with a very green thumb might create the flower arrangements or the bride’s bouquet. Weddings are happy occasions in most families and relatives and friends would be happy to be a real participant in the event.

Here are some traditional guidelines for the usual division of payment in traditional weddings. Again, these are only suggestions.

Normally, anything to do with the bride’s dress or appearance is the responsibility of the bride’s family. That includes the bride’s wedding dress, headdress or jewellery. Also the bride’s responsibilities, or that of her family, are the bridesmaid’s gifts and bouquets, corsages for their grandmother and the flowers for the ceremony and the reception.

The decorations for the ceremony, like altar baskets filled with flowers in the bride’s colours or portable arches, are the obligation of the bride’s family. These decorations can include candelabras and kneeling benches for the ceremony. If the wedding is taking place outside, a canopy and carpet for the walk to the altar would be part of the bride’s expenses. Simply put, any rentals for either the ceremony or the reception would be paid for by the bride or her family.

During the initial planning for the wedding the bride will select, order and pay for the announcements, invitations and wedding programs, including any special napkins, matches or printed materials for the reception.

Both the bride and the groom buy the rings for each other, along with the traditional wedding gift they each exchange.

Traditionally, the groom pays for the bride’s bouquet, his own boutonniere and those for his groomsmen and ushers. He is also responsible for the corsages worn by both mothers. The groom pays for the marriage license and carries it with him to the ceremony.

He is also responsible for paying the clergyman’s fee or that of the public official that performs the ceremony, though often the Best Man actually delivers the money to the clergyman.

The bride pays the church or chapel fee for the ceremony and for the reception, including the church janitor for the cleanup after. The bride pays for any music or photography for either location, including the church soloist or musician and band or DJ for the reception.

The wedding cake and any wedding favours for the guests are the bride’s expenses.

Some weddings are loaded with breakfasts, luncheons and dinners to help celebrate some aspect of the approaching nuptials. Who hosts and pays for each one could get confusing. The traditional arrangement is the groom’s family pays for the rehearsal dinner while the bride and her family are responsible for bridesmaid’s luncheons, the wedding breakfast, and the bridal brunch.

Finally, the groom pays for limousine service and the honeymoon details, while the bride handles accommodations for out-of-town guests.

While those divisions of responsibility are traditional and based on old habits carried down through the decades, today’s weddings are not so strictly traditional. Whatever works for the couple is just fine.

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Perfect Wedding Magazine

Tuesday, December 8th, 2009

Whatever your dreams are for your wedding, Perfect Wedding can help you make them a reality. Start collecting ideas and inspiration today with every issue including:

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Perfume Offers For Christmas From CheapSmells.com

Tuesday, December 8th, 2009

An ideal present for the woman in your life is perfume. CheapSmells.com have some fantastic stocking filler ideas just for you.



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Personalised Wedding Favours

Friday, October 30th, 2009

Wedding favours are there as a small gift for your wedding guests, and to remind them of your special day that they shared with you.

Having your favours personalised is a beautiful touch that shows your personality. You can get edible favours, keepsakes, and other merchandise personalised for the wedding. By adding your names to the favours, or by adding the wedding date, your gift is truly personalised very easily.

In years to come, your guests will know exactly where that favour came from, and will trigger memories of the day for them.

You can usually choose different options for your personalised message, like just your first names, or Mr & Mrs for fun. Add the wedding date to complete the customisation. It’s entirely up to you. Edible candy favours are the most common type. Almonds are another favourite.

If having the actual favour itself personalised isn’t an option, try adding a small tag with a personal message into each favour box.

Roses are another option for a personalised wedding favour. You can have gold or silver leaf lettering stamped onto the petals with your names and wedding date. Using food dye as a stamp, you can personalise almost anything. Get creative with your ideas. Other favour ideas are small picture frames with your picture in it, shot glasses with the date engraved on it, plates, small silver gifts, anything really.

Think of things that you love that your guests will relate to. If you are nature lovers, how about a jar of honey with your personal details on the label. Do a search on the internet for personalised gifts and favours and you’re bound to find something to suit you and your guests that won’t cost a fortune.

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